SINGLE WOMEN WONT DO PLANNING - THROW THE STINKY FISH BACK

Letter from James A.

Judge, Women don’t seem to have any sense of taking charge. I work all day as a project manager in construction where planning and communicating are what I get paid for. When I date women, they expect that I will do all the planning and communicating for all of our activities in the evenings and weekends. Is this the way it is????

The RIGHT ANSWER: It is only that way if you let it be…. If you accept women like that, they will only make you do all the planning and then blame YOU for anything that goes wrong. They want to do what they want when they want and so will expect YOU to do the planning but then will reserve the right to trash anything you planned. It will drain you. It is wrong. I’d find out as soon as you know a lady whether she can step up and be an equal partner in finding solutions that not just she agrees with but that she CARES and even caters to what YOU would like. Afterall, when a gal expects a man to do planning of an activity, she EXPECTS him to cater to her likes more than what he likes. Look for the same in her. If you don’t find it…. Look for a different lady….

You may not be in a pond that has any fish that don’t stink…. But it doesn’t mean you have to eat stinky fish and have a miserable life…. IF the fish is rotten, DON”T eat the fish. Throw it back.