Q&A BY SELFISH CURIOUS WOMEN - UNSKILLED ENTITLEMENT PRINCESSES

From August 25, 2007 ON AIR JUDGE WYLD SHOW - Radio Talk
Excerpt from show prep notes. On air content may have been more or less. Not journalistic or debate notes.

Conversations with questions. I can’t stand them. Since when do I have to give out all my information just because a selfish person is curious?

What magazine or readers digest article or tv show says that to open guys up, that you have ask them questions about themselves?

THE MISGUIDED ADVICE: Young ladies. This is how to open up your man. Ask him about himself. He will love chatting on and on about himself. To show your interest, ask him about him.

NO NO NO NO NO…. If a guy has a first date that goes like this then the answer is NO. NO second date. NO paying for the date, definitely make sure that date is DUTCH and no second date.

If she can’t talk about herself then she will NAG you into talking for the rest of your life… Let’s face it, she has nothing to say if all she can do is take up time and email space to put forth questions. An annoying 5 year old. Why Why Why… tell me more. Oh that’s interesting, tell me more!!. Like you are an audio book with all this stuff waiting to entertain upon request… NO NO NO…..

The thoughtful women know that YOU are trying to get to know HER. Actually you aren’t, you just want to kiss her, but the best gals will at least share about themselves so you can get to know her.

You know the LOSER Q&A chick will say… "I just want to get to know you… is that so wrong?" YES it’s wrong… It’s SELFISH.

What makes your WANT to get to know him more important than him getting to know about YOU?

The answer. Share. Share in the areas that you want to know about him. Share in the depth that you want him to share with you.

The art of conversation is sharing such that you are giving energy.

Two things happen at that point. He finds out that all you care about is shopping and runs from you as he should.

You will find out that he doesn’t have in common things you like or care about them deeply like you do and then can turn and run at that point……

maybe both of you will stay in the conversation long enough to kiss and makeout

but at least after both of you RUN, you have been kissed.

Either way, give it a chance by not scaring him away with annoying Q&A.

Sincerely, JUDGE WYLD