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Sunday, December 28, 2008

CRISIS COUNSELLING IS FLAWED - GET SAFE HAVEN BUT THEN SEEK A REAL COUNSELOR

From October 20, 2007 ON AIR JUDGE WYLD SHOW - Radio Talk
Excerpt from show prep notes. On air content may have been more or less. Not journalistic or debate notes.


POPPED Psychology….


Your problems are someone else's fault so get away from them. They tell you to Leave your husband. Leave your boyfriend. Don’t have expectations. Don’t be judgmental. If it’s difficult; run from it.


Why do the real work of finding out why the person is in the situation they are in. Just give them slogans.


These pop psychologists pretend that being judgmental and LABELLING is the worlds worst sin. The woman who runs in weeping is judged as an innocent victim. Based on a story that the weeping woman tells, the counselor judges that the other person (the kids mom or dad or step dad or boyfriend or husband or landlord or boss or neighbor,) is a bad bad bad person.


If the people have screwed up their life so badly that they are in front of YOU for advice. Then maybe the people around them that they are so upset with, are RIGHT and SHOULD be in that persons life.


Tell them how to LISTEN and DO the right thing instead of rationalizing their own ratty behavior that others are telling them they need to change.


Crisis counselors can create a crisis.... time to solve the sick people's problems...not tell them to run from the healthy people in their lives...


Get help... go to a real counselor after you have talked to a crisis counselor. Comments? Come on... Comment now.


Sincerely, JUDGE WYLD

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